Every day Jahan Pakistan Lahore:
Health and life:
Hakeem Muhammad Tariq Mehmood Majzoobi Chughtai Editor of Ubqari (Phd America):
One man is bad and the generations become bad: Readers every single person who use to come to me gives me some observations and experiences, they use to be negative also and positive also but the thing which has make me restrain to become shock again and again that, that thing is this that not giving attention on children and for the training of it not taking out time of even one single moment. When their character, faith and the alone sitting and functions are not in the supervision of parents, the children use to spend the life like the thorny bushes and become uncontrollable. Then those children when grow up and takes the form of mother or father and then the bad character of mother and father makes the generation which are coming as damaged, worst and most worst and of bad character. In this regard I get countless meetings, written notes and letters. Read the story of one house which came to me in a written form: Marriage with rake and lascivious man: “Respected Hakeem Sir! Ten years have been passed to my marriage. I have four daughters, my husband is the only son of his parents and he is a very much rake and lascivious human being. The mother and father brought him up with the income of haram and never even send one second also on the training of him. There is nothing like diffidence and modesty inside him, in the matter of work he is very much lazy and slow. In start my mother in law and father in law took my responsibility but now as there are four daughters of me and I have no son so the mother in law and the father in law have also changed the direction of them. my husband keeps on sleeping only, use to watch movies or else he makes me humiliated. Just apart from this he has no other work. If he gets the work also so if his heart gets agreed so he does that otherwise he has no care of it. he has no worry about the children neither of their eating and drinking, nor even of wife instead he has kept me more worst like an animal. He has no care of me. What effect would go upon the daughters of him that they do feel by looking at the acts of their father and sometimes the laugh and then tell to other people. If I stop him from the prohibited act so he used to say bad words to me and my children, hit us and he keeps on coming and going to the ladies which are outside the house. It is the wish of him that I may also spend the life with him like the ladies of outside but I am not able to do this at all in any case. Worry due to my daughters: My husband has one sister only and she is also like her brother completely. 14 years have passed to her marriage, her son is of 12 years also do not gets stopped with his bad habits. I am very much worried. I have my daughters along with me, I use to remain very much sad. He is also the blood of them, my elder daughter is of 8 years, I used to remain worried for her. Now the immodesty, stubbornness, fight, not getting interested in studies and giving answer of everything is getting increased in the children like their father and this situation is in all of the children. They do not see that whether she is the mother or any other elder person whatever comes in their mouth they use to say it. They take out their eyes, I am very much worried. I am worried! What should I do??? I only see one path to get better with my husband and it is this that he may come to your sermon of Thursday and in the sitting of peace and spirituality, plus there is no other way apart from this. Now I have become tired and I have become fed up of life. Is there any way of living for me in this society? I want to change the path of my life! I want this that my husband and the days and nights of him may get changed, I am very much worried, what should I do??? Readers! This is one letter which I have presented in your service after very much of deduction and making it proper and one weird and true story. There is not one but thousands of true stories like this due to which the houses are getting filled like the dirty gutter. The bad acts of new culture has not giving us anything apart from wealth, world, beauty, young age and of moving forward in the race of development. Do believe! The training and character is only and only the part of life of Islam and faith. We will not get these things in any other society at all. Come! Let us leave something for our children in the life of Islam otherwise not the generations but the whole society is becoming damage and our house and whole system of the society is damaged and it is being damaged! I wish! There may be someone to think.